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7 THINGS EVERY GIRL IN HER 20s NEEDS TO STOP DOING RIGHT NOW...by Suzysmallz

Susan Chiamaka Ikegwu
1. Thinking like a man: Sure it prevents you from getting hurt, and you feel super indestructible, but you really get nowhere. Your hard exterior, potty mouth and reckless behavior only attract the same into your life. If you want to remain single or date someone as brash and cold, keep up with that attitude. Only put out what you wish to receive. Never forget it.
2.  Trying to be perfect: You don’t need to..its very unnecessary..You are not perfect and you will never be perfect. Accept the fact, you weren’t born perfect. Stop trying to achieve perfection when less is more.
3.   Idolizing Celebrities: Here we all make the mistake of trying to be like Rihannah, Kim Kardashian etc. I understand we all want to be rich and famous and drop-dead gorgeous like them but not in a fake way because they are very fake. we can’t afford to have a makeup artist every day and Botox injections on the weekends. By idolizing her, you lose focus of what’s important. Work toward your goals every day, but remember that happiness comes from within. Remember you are very precious.
4.  Stressing: No matter how confusing life gets as we get older, we have all the answers. All we have to do is quiet the noise around us. We’ve been stressed before, and we’ve made it out alive. We can do it once more…and again and again. Keep your life simplified and keep your soul at peace. The more we know, the more things get complicated. Make room for the unknown and be open to change. Life is good, and it’s only going to get better!
5.   Getting Naked on Social Media: This part really gets me sick and I am like OMG how can a man admire you? Because no. Just no. Not only are you completely selling yourself short, you are succumbing to pretty attention from sick, lonely men. They’re not complimenting you on anything of substance, and they’re only into your breasts and ass. If you have so much to offer the world getting naked for likes will make you lose credibility. You seem easy and leave nothing up to the imagination. Real men want more.
6.  Clubbing Every Weekend: That was cool years’ back, now it’s just exhausting and destructive. You encounter the same crap every night and the same drunk girls hooking up with random guys. You’ll never find what you’re looking for in there, and there are better places to dance and socialize than a club. In addition to all of this, your body is tired of drinking. Give it up. Meditate. Read a book. Go out for trainings. Your body isn’t what it used to be.
7.    Getting Jealous About Other Girls: Yeah! It take a lot to get rid of this because I was a huge victim (did I just put this on the internet).There’s no reason to get jealous when you’re secure with who you are. Cheer other women on and be genuine about it. You help her, she helps you, and the world goes ’round and ’round. “I am now the kind of lady that makes other girls step up their game up”.

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