CAN A MAN FORGIVE HIS CHEATING WIFE? This Story will shock you

Some people say love is blind, some say theirs is not blind but sees, others say it is either blind or not blind or it is partially blind. The fact remains that love has its own definition to individuals depending on who they decide to love. Our definition of love is dependent on who we are in a relationship with and also dependent on how much we love that person. So when you say love is blind or not or it’s partially blind, it goes a long way to tell your love history.

I have never seen love this blind till I came across the story of a man who married a woman that he loved very much. He was a successful business man who has chains of business within and outside the nation. So he came across this lady one day at the airport while coming back from a business trip, they happened to bud the same flight going back to the same location where he resides and as well the lady, and fortunately for them they sat on the same roll. A long the line they began talking, the discussion went on until the flight landed, after been checked out of the flight they exchanged contacts and bided themselves goodbye.

They kept communicating on the phone for one month until they met again, they hung out a few times and both discovered they were so much in love but kept in under control, but after a short while, the man started expressing it with expensive gifts of cars, jewelleries, gadgets, phones and trips of different kinds to various countries. At this point they were expressing their love in maximum without restrain.

But the man had discovered a negative past and present about this lady through intelligent gathering from his security team and did not make it known her. He had believed that love covers multitude of sins and his love for her will change her. They went on and got married and had children and their marriage was blissful for 5 years.

One day he came back from work earlier than usual without his car and on getting to door of his bedroom only to hear voices of his wife discussing with a man stranger in their bedroom. He waited patiently at the door and listened carefully, and after a long discussion they started making love on their matrimonial bed. He quietly opened the door, and after looking at them he quietly closed the door left the house. He waited until his usual time of returning to come home. When he returned he gave his wife a necklace he had bought while back from work, he put on the stereo and danced with the wife. He was so happy than usual, and the wife was perplexed with his joyful attitude. The wife had prepared his best meal which was already served on the dinning, he reached out for the dinning and sat down to eat and made the wife sit by his side.

He took a spoon of his meal and looked at the wife and said “Honey do you know I love you so much that I can die to prove it to you; even if I die now I would be happy that while on earth I fell in love with someone like you”. Still amazed the wife gazed at him wondering why all these statements about dying and loving, then he told her all that went on earlier between her and the strange man in their bedroom, how they planned to poison this meal he was about eating and how they planned to cart away with all his money and investments and how they plan to get married to each other in a distant country. 

He told her how much he knew about her plans even before they got married, and how he loved her knowing full well that his life was a stake. He said to her “am not afraid to die for love, I had loved you with the whole of my heart even when I knew about your infidelity since the past five years, I knew today would come and I have prepared my fate for this day”. 

Tears of regrets rolled down the wife’s checks as she started apologising and pleading for forgiveness. He quickly reached out to the poisoned meal and ate it while the wife kept shouting to stop him.

He was rushed to the hospital, thank God he survived but the wife went on to report herself to the police and she was sent to jail. The husband still forgave her and wanted her to be released from prison but she refused because of the shame of what she did. Her regret was that she never knew that someone could love her to the point of almost dying for her and she threw all that away because of greed.

I don’t know what to say about this story, if love is blind, ignorant, foolish but in the end like Solomon said in Songs of Solomon "Love is as strong as death".